Cottage for Sale, Must Be Moved

When Kate Whouley saw the classified ad for an abandoned vacation cottage, she began to dream: Transport the cottage through four Cape Cod towns. Attach it to my three-room house. Create more space for my work and life. Smart, single, and self-employed, Kate was used to fending for herself. But she wasn’t prepared for half the surprises, complications, and self-discoveries of her house-moving adventure.

Supported by friends and family, and egged on by Egypt, her bossy gray cat, Kate encountered a parade of town officials, a small convoy of State Police, and an eccentric band of house-movers, carpenters, and tradesmen. She found herself dancing on the edge of the gender divide-infatuated with trucks, cranes, tools, construction terms, and a dreamy mason who taught her the history of concrete.

Sketched with a deft hand and told with an open heart, Cottage for Sale is a deeply personal story that captivates, inspires, and delights. In one remarkable year, Whouley moved a cottage and created a home. Once you cross the threshold, you’ll never want to leave.

PRAISE

“…an odyssey of confusion, consternation, and light comedy… there is so much here you will want to read it twice… a cast of characters that range from interesting to eccentric, a series of misadventures that might have come from a comic novel, and a narrative style that makes you keep turning the pages. It’s one of those books in which the author has taken something personal and made it universal.”
~ Booklist

“This sweetly meandering tale of love will have you wanting your own cottage, to fill with books and friends!”
~ Susan Hermann Loomis, author of On Rue Tatin

“Whouley’s gentle memoir…deftly explores the themes of independence, pride of place and loss…”
~ The New York Times

“It was with deep pleasure that I followed Kate Whouley on this fine adventure of domestic wildness.”
~ David Gessner, author of Return of the Osprey

“…an almost Holy Grail quest… highly entertaining.”
~ The Wall Street Journal

I read Cottage for Sale in one sitting! Whouley’s saga of buying and moving a cottage is also a parallel story of independence and can-do spirit that will make you cheer.”
~ Cindy Crosby, author of By Willoway Brook

“That Whouley is a natural born storyteller is evident from the first page of her book.”
~ The Cape Codder

“In taking readers through the her cottage’s move across Cape Cod to be joined to her home, Whouley…guides us through her own life–a life rich in family, friends (including one of American literature’s most interesting cats), challenges, and personal growth and satisfaction…as beautifully written as any novel and as revealing and rewarding as the best memoirs.”
~ NightsAndWeekends.com

“100% original and 100% enjoyable.”
~ Book-of-the-Month Club News

“…there is so much here you will want to read it twice… a cast of characters that range from interesting to eccentric, a series of misadventures that might have come from a comic novel, and a narrative style that makes you keep turning the pages. It’s one of those books in which the author has taken something personal and made it universal.”
~ Booklist

“… a delightful one-sitting read.”
~ The AAA Easy BookClub

“…an engaging saga that should appeal to anyone who has actually accomplished such a project, or simply longed to do so.”
~ Foreword Magazine

“…a pitch-perfect description of both small town life and personal anticipation…told in a voice of such good humor and thoughtful humanity… It is not simply about the marriage of a small house and smaller cottage, but about the hope we all find in home. I loved Cottage For Sale.”
~ Anna Quindlen, Book-of-the-Month Club News

“… a tale with universal appeal, one that explores human nature and human endeavor with honesty and compassion.”
~ Barnstable Patriot

GALLERY

READING GROUP GUIDE: COTTAGE FOR SALE

1. The book opens with Kate admitting she is “a compulsive reader of the classifieds.” She describes classified ads “as the skeletons of stories, waiting for me to invent their skin.” How did this admission affect your perception of Kate? Was your initial impression confirmed, or did it change as the story unfolded?

2. Who are the Bog Boys and how did they get their name? What is their significance in Kate’s project, and in her life? Do you have or wish you had Bog Boys in your life?

3. At a family Christmas party, Kate stands up and states her intention to move the cottage. She thinks that stating her intentions out loud help with her resolve. Have you ever stated your intention to face a challenge in order to gather courage? Did it help you achieve success?

4. What significance does the chapter on Wish Angels have to the rest of the story? Kate states that “Wish Angels have special ways of knowing.” Did the success of the cottage project hinge on a special way of knowing? Could anyone have done it with similar success?

5. Visiting the cottage colony, Kate returns to “the last little cottage in the row.” After her second tour of that cottage, Kate realizes that she has “fallen deeply, irretrievably in love.” Have you ever become hopelessly entranced with an inanimate object? What did it signify for you?

6. Kate could have purchased a larger cottage with extra features, but she insisted on one in particular. “I want to move a cottage with personality, with history, a cottage that has been loved.” Does knowing that someone loved something make it more special? If you were offered the bigger, better option, would you take it?

7. Town Hall put Kate through her paces with paperwork, hearings, and challenges. She bought the cottage before she had permission for the project. Do you see this as risk or faith? How do faith and risk-taking contribute to our lives?

8. What little item does Kate refer to with affection and wonderment that survives the moving ordeal and remains in place after the cottage is set onto the new foundation? What are other moments of wonder in the story? Do you note these little moments in your life?

9. Could Kate have completed the cottage project as successfully without the support of her friends? What roles do friends play in your life?

10. “The man will arrive when I have room for him.” Kate hopes her expanded home will help her love life. Do you believe there is some truth in this, or do you think it is just wishful thinking?

11. Ed, Kate’s head carpenter, says, “The main thing is to get it over here onto the foundation. Then, we build the connecting passageway, and finally we marry the houses together.” How does this technical description act as a metaphor for the memoir?

12. What are some moments in the story when Kate grapples with being female? Have you ever felt limited or empowered by your gender?

13. How did you react when Kate and Bruce missed seeing the cottage in the Hyannis Airport Rotary? Did you find humor in Cottage for Sale where you least expected it?

14. What is the role of Egypt the cat in Kate’s life? Discuss key moments in the story involving Egypt and how those moments affect Kate’s perceptions of the project and herself. Have you ever had an animal who seemed to be “in charge” of your household?

15. Kate developed a series of individual relationships with the workmen on her project. Which relationships were most familiar to you? Discuss the evolution, differences, or similarities in her relationships with Ed, John, Mr. Hayden, and Vito. Whom among the workmen would you most like to meet, or have work for you?

16. Kate frets over details from the perfect shade of paint to the best blending of construction materials. Can you relate to the need for precision, or are you willing to settle for less?

17. If Kate were not as focused on making careful and harmonious combinations of color, texture, and form, would you have found the story as interesting? What are some of the most striking and memorable passages in the story that deal with sensory and tactile imagery?

18. Might the house-moving/construction project have developed differently if finances hadn’t been an issue? Have you ever made major financial decisions with no room for retreat and no safety net?

19. The ability to imagine possibilities and to see a finished product where there are only ideas is a shared trait between Kate and some of the workmen. Is this a talent or a skill? Do you rely on visual, verbal, emotional, or intuitive traits to carry you through a project? What could have happened to Kate’s project if she had lacked vision?

20. How does sound and imagery play a part in the story? Have you ever read any passages out loud just to hear how the words sounded?

21. Certain events trigger memories within the memoir, which is itself a memory. Did the memories help you get to know or care more about Kate and her cottage project? Did Kate’s memories trigger memories of your own?

22. Did Cottage for Sale stir up any long-latent dreams of yours? Do you feel inspired or empowered to make different life choices as a result of reading this book?

23. Discuss the importance and significance of “home.”

24. Was the ending of the memoir satisfying or do you want to know more about Kate’s life in the “married” cottages? Based on what you know of Kate, speculate about what happened next.

25. Would you recommend this book to other reading groups? How would you describe this book’s effect on you?

©2005 Random House, Inc.

AUTHOR Q&A: COTTAGE FOR SALE

A Conversation with Kate Whouley

Shannon Goheen: How did you choose the title Cottage for Sale, Must Be Moved?

Kate Whouley: The title came to me as soon as I decided to write the book. Aside from echoing the original classified ad, I hoped some readers might make the connection to an old song, “Cottage for Sale.” It’s a mournful ballad, and my favorite version is sung by Billy Eckstein. Even though it’s a song about endings and loss, it is also a song about how we invest our dreams in a place, and how a home becomes infused with who we are—and vice versa. Through the years, I’ve always wondered about the other side of the song: We know about the sad, broken couple who have to put their love nest up for sale, but who are the people who will buy it? How will they claim the cottage as their own? Implicit in the two-part title is the end-story. The cottage isn’t just for sale—it must be moved.

SG: Cottage for Sale starts with a list of people identified as the “Cast and Crew,” likening the cottage-moving project to a play or movie. What were you thinking when you structured the story this way?

KW: As I say at the start of that section, “It takes a village to move a cottage.” I wanted to acknowledge the many people who supported and shared the cottage adventure, and I also felt that a list might come in handy for readers. There aren’t any long Russian surnames to remember, but there are a lot of people in this book.

SG: Some of the people who supported your efforts were loving friends who appeared when you needed them. How difficult would this project have been without friends?

KW: When I talk about my friends in Cottage for Sale, I call them “an embarrassment of riches.” Friends helped in all sorts of ways—some assisted me with actual tasks; others provided emotional support: They listened and they cheered me on-often from afar. How difficult would this project have been without friends? I would have spent a lot more time in unrelieved angst and a lot less time sending e-mail around the world. I think the better question is: how difficult would any of our lives be without our friends? Pretty tough.

SG: An underlying tension throughout the book is the fact that you long for a life partner. Yet, your independence, determination, and unwillingness to compromise get the job done to your satisfaction. If you had had a partner during the cottage moving, do you think you would have had a story to tell?

KW: I never thought about this book as a way to tell “my story.” And it wasn’t even the elements of high adventure—a cottage on wheels, a house in the air—that persuaded me to write a book. The remarkable crew on this project caught my attention. As I got to know the men better, I realized I wanted to honor them and their work in a tangible way. In writing the book, I felt I also needed to honor my own truth in that moment, and I was keenly aware—during that particular year of my life—of the fact of my singleness.

SG: The “geography of gender” as you call it, is an underlying theme in the book. How do you think your gender influenced the project? Had you been ‘one of the boys’, do you think the workmen would have treated you differently?

KW: I think my femaleness in the midst of so much maleness added a dimension that might have been lacking were I one of the boys. My guess is that I would have been more readily accepted, but that I might not have been as interested in understanding both the technical aspects of the job and the men who performed the tasks. I suspect the crew might not have indulged another man in quite the same way they were willing to indulge me. I’m not sure I would have had as much fun. But perhaps that all depends on what sort of man I might be.

SG: Did your gender affect your approach to telling the story?

KW: This circles back to your earlier question. Would it have been a different story if I were a man, or if I were married—or if I were a married man? Undoubtedly. But I am not sure that difference would have come from either my marital status or my gender. Give three different writers the same story to write and you will end up with three different books. It’s something I love about the creative process. It is unpredictable, deeply personal. We gaze through the lens of our own experience, making choices that are unique, and uniquely ours.

SG: Your fascination with color adds immeasurably to the rich imagery of Cottage for Sale. How and when did your passion for color originate?

KW: I’m thinking: Crayola. I remember the thrill when I finally got the box with all sixty-four colors and the little built-in crayon sharpener. There was a part of me that didn’t even want to use the crayons. I just wanted to look at them, and touch their waxy points, all lined up in rows of color. I also loved the names: carnation pink, burnt sienna, cornflower, thistle, magenta. Wonderful words to say out loud. And I loved that there was red-orange, but also orange-red, and that they were just slightly different colors.

SG: The role of imagination-your own and its unique expression in others-is central to the project, and to the story. Did Cottage for Sale bring this contemplation to the forefront or have you been considering this for a while?

KW: I have always been a proponent of a broadened definition of creativity. I truly believe, as I say in the book, that it takes a large amount of creativity just to get through an average day on Earth. I also believe that our imaginations are at work 24-7, and with wildly different results. I could imagine the hallway finished—actually see it in my mind. John and Ed, listening to me, and using a combination of talents that include a different sort of imagining, could make what was imagined real.

SG: Author Anna Quindlen described Cottage for Sale as “…a pitch-perfect description of both small-town life and personal anticipation.” The words “pitch-perfect” also describe your ability to combine words that sound pleasing, giving your prose musical quality that begs to be read aloud. Do you naturally write like this, or is this perfect pitch quality something you create after the story gets told?

KW: I don’t try to achieve anything close to perfection in a first draft. If I did, I wouldn’t get past the opening sentence. Rather, I work very hard on every draft that follows the first. In Cottage, many chapters were subject to six or seven sets of revisions-and that’s before I undertook the job of editing the book as a whole. When I edit my work, I read aloud, and notice where I stumble, where a word sounds wrong, or a sentence seems clunky. I believe that if the words are right to the ear, they are likely the right words.

SG: The Booklist review of Cottage for Sale mentions that it contains “a series of misadventures that might have come from a comic novel.” Other reviewers have also mentioned the novelistic quality of the narrative. Was this intentional on your part?

KW: When I embarked on the cottage adventure, I was also at work on a novel-and had been, for many years of Sundays and holidays. I felt very much at home in a fictional world. As I began working on Cottage for Sale, I approached it with a fiction writer’s sensibility. Though I was telling a true story and dealing with a real world, I was reliving the adventure, re-creating the story, remembering that world. I wanted readers to come along with me on the journey, to be with me and the book in the same way that you inhabit a really good novel.

SG: Did you work on both books simultaneously?

KW: No, mostly I worked on Cottage for Sale. I believe that stories have their times and that they choose us, not the reverse. In this, I am influenced by a Vedic folktale that says if you don’t give a story voice when it wants to speak, it will burst out of your belly in the middle of the night, attacking you. I knew I needed to write this one right away, while the details were fresh in my mind—and before it took up residence in my belly. Even knowing that the time and the story were right, I had trouble setting the novel aside. I felt like I was abandoning a child. Eventually, I realized I was only sending her off to boarding school. I had to trust the novel would return to me—perhaps a little older and wiser, ready to finish our work together.

SG: Are you working on the novel now? Are you willing to say anything about it?

KW: Yes, I hope to finish it soon. The story is set largely in Paris, and is peopled with historical and living personages from the world of classical music. The principal character, Hannah Schaeffer, is the music director of a major American orchestra. She has recently suffered a romantic disappointment and has returned to Paris, where she was trained as a musician. In conversations with her long-dead teacher, Nadia Boulanger, she’s trying to sort out all the big issues: men, women, love, art, life, loss. Not exactly Cottage II, but once again, I hope to create a special place where readers want to stay awhile.

SG: What differences do you find between writing fiction and memoir?

KW: I love inhabiting different worlds—by this I don’t mean the world of fiction and the world of nonfiction, but the world composed of the present reality and the alternative worlds of memory and imagination. In many ways, I don’t think these various worlds are so far apart. All memory is fiction, and in fiction, we discover our essential truths.

Shannon Goheen is a freelance writer, landscape designer, and long-form radio news commentator based on Cape Cod.

©2005 Random House, Inc.